Johari Window
Years ago, I came across a nifty website. Users can create their own Johari window, which is a psychological tool that helps map a person’s personality. I saved the link to mine as a bookmark.
Originally, this was something I did just for fun, like any of the myriad Meyers-Briggs Star Trek tests. (I’m usually an INTP, which is Worf.) As time has passed, I’ve found it to be more powerful than most Internet memes. Even though only 6 people participated at that time, and it hasn’t been updated since 2006 or so, it’s been a very helpful to keep around. I’ve been told repeatedly that my self image is skewed. I’ve looked at the words I chose for myself, and I still think they all apply. But this is how others see me.
Lately my self esteem has taken a beating. No matter how self-aware I try to be, I don’t ever see the whole picture. The visual aid really helps to bring perspective, and that Blind Spot is especially informative. Feeling weak and helpless is quite common for me, but other people think otherwise. Just knowing that helps me tap into that strength.
Interestingly, there’s also at least one trait in that blind spot that I don’t believe is accurate at all. That reminds me that some people will see what they want to, whether or not it’s there. So I try to respect other people’s opinions, and can use their views of me to help me have a fresh perspective. I just have to remember not to be tempted to define myself by other people’s views.
Arena(known to self and others)
energetic, independent, intelligent, loving |
Blind Spot(known only to others)
able, accepting, brave, caring, complex, dependable, friendly, giving, ingenious, introverted, kind, nervous, powerful, proud, religious, self-conscious, sentimental, silly, sympathetic, trustworthy, witty |
Façade(known only to self)
reflective, searching |
Unknown(known to nobody)
adaptable, bold, calm, cheerful, clever, confident, dignified, extroverted, happy, helpful, idealistic, knowledgeable, logical, mature, modest, observant, organised, patient, quiet, relaxed, responsive, self-assertive, sensible, shy, spontaneous, tense, warm, wise |
Dominant Traits
66% of people agree that LadyGlutter is intelligent
All Percentages
able (16%) accepting (16%) adaptable (0%) bold (0%) brave (16%) calm (0%) caring (50%) cheerful (0%) clever (0%) complex (16%) confident (0%) dependable (16%) dignified (0%) energetic (33%) extroverted (0%) friendly (33%) giving (16%) happy (0%) helpful (0%) idealistic (0%) independent (16%) ingenious (16%) intelligent (66%) introverted (16%) kind (16%) knowledgeable (0%) logical (0%) loving (50%) mature (0%) modest (0%) nervous (16%) observant (0%) organised (0%) patient (0%) powerful (16%) proud (16%) quiet (0%) reflective (0%) relaxed (0%) religious (16%) responsive (0%) searching (0%) self-assertive (0%) self-conscious (16%) sensible (0%) sentimental (33%) shy (0%) silly (16%) spontaneous (0%) sympathetic (16%) tense (0%) trustworthy (33%) warm (0%) wise (0%) witty (16%)
You can make your own Johari Window, or view LadyGlutter’s full data
Feel free to contribute to my window, or send me a link to yours. If you’re thick-skinned and truly looking for self discovery, you could always try out the Nohari window. That’s the darker, more critical version. Fun stuff!