Renny Glee­son artic­u­lates beau­ti­fully my feel­ings about the cur­rent cul­ture sur­round­ing cell­phone usage.  I freaked out the other day when  my kids were pre­tend­ing to text each other in the mid­dle of an oth­er­wise nor­mal make believe sit­u­a­tion. It’s very com­mon for some­one to bless me out because I tend to take my time return­ing phone calls.  Peo­ple have actu­ally been con­fused when I’ve told them to hold on a minute so I can pull over and safely talk to them.  We’re about to start gam­ing, and through­out the night there will be sev­eral phones will be buzzing and chirp­ing, and the rest of us will just pre­tend like it isn’t happening.

And about the posed kiss thing — seri­ously, what exactly is the qual­ity of a kiss that is per­formed solely for the pur­pose of post­ing on your MySpace page?  Real kiss­ing involves both hands going every which way.  And if you really mean it, you’re not giv­ing a crap what you will look like to all your friends.  It’s messy and not at all pho­to­genic, and gor­geous all the same.

Oh yeah, and get off my lawn, you hooligans!

 

4 Responses to Culture of Availability”

  1. Apollo says:

    I really love all of the TED talks I’ve seen so far. I’ve been won­der­ing a lot recently about how con­nected is ‘over-connected’. I used to think that Twit­ter was the ulti­mate in over-sharing, and I’m still not sure that it isn’t, though I do enjoy using it. As for cell­phones, I think this guy will be sorely upset in years to come when they become even more per­va­sive than they already are. As tech­nol­ogy improves and phones become capa­ble of more and more I believe that once triv­ial niceties, such as access to Google search or Wikipedia (or, as we’re already see­ing, email) will some­how morph into appar­ent necessities.

  2. LadyGlutter says:

    At the Easter fam­ily potluck this week­end, we had a bit of a gen­er­a­tional divide over tex­ting. I’m in the very mid­dle of the age groups, and found both sides amus­ing to watch. A lot of that it was just the age groups involved butting heads, of course. Teenagers were bored because they couldn’t text their friends, and the par­ents were irri­tated because we were sup­posed to be hav­ing fam­ily time already. Mul­ti­task­ing con­ver­sa­tions is one thing, and becom­ing more and more per­va­sive. Ignor­ing a group of 30 peo­ple, and claim­ing there’s no one to talk to because your phone isn’t buzzing, is some­thing else.

  3. Aaron says:

    OK OK! Ha ha, i get it. Ill put the phone down dur­ing the game! You do have to admit that i have got­ten bet­ter at this.

  4. LadyGlutter says:

    Oh no, you saw what I wrote! What­ever shall I do?! You have got­ten way bet­ter at this, I agree. :)

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